Halloween at ACES: The Seaquel (Members Play Party)
Oct
30

Halloween at ACES: The Seaquel (Members Play Party)

👻 Halloween Party: The Seaquel — Members Play Party & Costume Contest

Can't wait to party? Neither can we! Halloween: The Seaquel is your chance to dive in early and bring the magic to life. The depths are calling, and the waters are already stirring. Costumes are encouraged, inhibitions are left ashore, and the darkness below is waiting to be explored. Come dive in for twisted fun, sultry surprises, and get the mischief started early.

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Kitsap littles’n’middles
Nov
2

Kitsap littles’n’middles

Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.

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Kitsap Queer Discussion Group
Nov
3

Kitsap Queer Discussion Group

Come as you are to Kitsap Queer Group, a monthly discussion space where queer voices are centered, respected, and celebrated. Whether you're exploring your identity or deeply rooted in it, this gathering offers room to connect, question, and grow in community. Open to all queer folks and allies.

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Kitsap Social Munch
Nov
5

Kitsap Social Munch

Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.

Held on the first Thursday of every month.

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Rope Open Party
Nov
6

Rope Open Party

Rope Party – A Night of Knots and Kink

Whether you're an experienced rigger, a rope bunny, or simply curious about what rope can bring to your play, this party is for you. Our Rope Party is a night to connect, explore, and get inspired by the endless possibilities of rope and kink.

Held First Friday of Odd Numbered Months

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ACES/WHiP Protocol Play Party
Nov
7

ACES/WHiP Protocol Play Party

This event is for anyone in the kink, BDSM, or power exchange community who’s curious about Protocol or wants a space to practice it with others. You don’t need any experience. Just bring an open mind, a respectful attitude, and your role mindset (whatever that means for you). Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, switch, or still figuring things out, this is a place to explore structure, etiquette, and service in a low-pressure, welcoming environment. Do you have experience with Protocols? Please come out and show off your house Protocols.

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Members Only Play Party
Nov
13

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Members Only Play Party
Nov
14

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap ACES *DM* Volunteer Training Workshop
Nov
18

Kitsap ACES *DM* Volunteer Training Workshop

Are you an active participant in the Kitsap area kink scene and enjoy spending time at ACES? Would you like to help support our non-profit organization? Looking for more ways to become involved in the community? Do you have a desire to help strengthen our team of volunteers? Would you like a peek at the "behind the scene" work that goes into hosting our events? Then we would love to have you!

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Members Only Play Party
Nov
21

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Giving Spanks - Open Party
Nov
27

Giving Spanks - Open Party

Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!

Held on the 4th Friday of each month.

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Kitsap Queer Discussion Group
Dec
1

Kitsap Queer Discussion Group

Come as you are to Kitsap Queer Group, a monthly discussion space where queer voices are centered, respected, and celebrated. Whether you're exploring your identity or deeply rooted in it, this gathering offers room to connect, question, and grow in community. Open to all queer folks and allies.

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Kitsap Social Munch
Dec
3

Kitsap Social Munch

Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.

Held on the first Thursday of every month.

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QTs (Queer Trans) Play Party
Dec
4

QTs (Queer Trans) Play Party

This play party is intended explicitly for queer and trans members of the Kitsap ACES community and the Kitsap community at large (this is an open play party). This party is sponsored/hosted by the Kitsap ACES Queer Discussion Group, which meets every first Tuesday of every month!

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Members Only Play Party
Dec
5

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap littles’n’middles
Dec
7

Kitsap littles’n’middles

Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.

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Members Only Play Party
Dec
11

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Members Only Play Party
Dec
12

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Members Only Play Party
Dec
19

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap S-Type Group
Oct
28

Kitsap S-Type Group

This group is for "s-types" meaning submissives, slaves, bottoms, property, brats, pets and so on as well as switches with their s-type hats on. We welcome and encourage all genders and sexualities to attend (this means YOU <3). Generally this group is for those in the Kitsap Area and surrounding Pacific Northwest to share, mingle, gather advice, and general banter of s-type topics.

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Board Meeting
Oct
27

Board Meeting

This will be an abbreviated board meeting held via zoom, for the holidays. Please come out and join us in our business & planning time during board meetings.

Agenda items will vary from month to month.

Standard Items each month are:
Monthly Financial Report, Maintenance Report, Volunteer Scheduling, Upcoming Event Needs.

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Kitsap ACES *DOOR* Volunteer Training Workshop
Oct
25

Kitsap ACES *DOOR* Volunteer Training Workshop

Are you an active participant in the Kitsap area kink scene and enjoy spending time at ACES? Would you like to help support our non-profit organization? Looking for more ways to become involved in the community? Do you have a desire to help strengthen our team of volunteers? Would you like a peek at the "behind the scene" work that goes into hosting our events? Then we would love to have you!

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Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Oct
23

Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party

Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!

Held on the 4th Friday of each month.

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Halloween Community Movie Night
Oct
18

Halloween Community Movie Night

Join us at Kitsap ACES for a community movie night

Ticket $10, purchased at the door

Popcorn and Soda or Hot Cocoa provided with ticket.
Please feel free to bring your own additional snacks. Blankets, pillows, or other cozy items also encouraged!

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Members Only Play Party
Oct
17

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Members Only Play Party
Oct
10

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Beyond the Play: What Lies Beneath Power, Pain, and Pleasure in BDSM, Presented by Joker
Oct
10

Beyond the Play: What Lies Beneath Power, Pain, and Pleasure in BDSM, Presented by Joker

Discussion

Length: 90 minutes - 2 hours

In this class, we look beyond what we do in BDSM and explore what draws us to it in the first place. Together, we'll talk about the experiences, desires, emotions, and personal meanings that can exist underneath our kinks, roles, and dynamics. What do we find in giving up control or taking it? What makes pain meaningful, pleasure intense, or certain experiences stay with us long after a scene ends? This isn't about diagnosing ourselves or finding a psychological explanation for every kink. It's a discussion-heavy class centered on curiosity, reflection, and honest conversation about what power, pain, pleasure, surrender, trust, vulnerability, and intensity can mean to each of us.

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Fall 2026 All Members Meeting
Oct
10

Fall 2026 All Members Meeting

Calling all Members please join us to cover what the future holds.

Meeting Agenda will cover: (Topics and order may change)

· Financial review

· Volunteer News

· Upcoming Events

· Board Elections - see more details below

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Members Only Play Party
Oct
9

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap Queer Discussion Group
Oct
6

Kitsap Queer Discussion Group

Come as you are to Kitsap Queer Group, a monthly discussion space where queer voices are centered, respected, and celebrated. Whether you're exploring your identity or deeply rooted in it, this gathering offers room to connect, question, and grow in community. Open to all queer folks and allies.

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Kitsap littles’n’middles
Oct
5

Kitsap littles’n’middles

Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.

View Event →
Members Only Play Party
Oct
3

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap ACES Vendor Fair
Oct
3

Kitsap ACES Vendor Fair

🌟 Kitsap ACES Vendor Fair 🌟

We will have our space jam packed with local vendors where you can come buy new toys, skin care, art, jewelry, furniture and more!

Shop from local vendors offering unique, handcrafted & kinky items

Open to the public (18+) and admission is FREE.

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QTs (Queer Trans) Play Party
Oct
2

QTs (Queer Trans) Play Party

This play party is intended explicitly for queer and trans members of the Kitsap ACES community and the Kitsap community at large (this is an open play party). This party is sponsored/hosted by the Kitsap ACES Queer Discussion Group, which meets every first Tuesday of every month!

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Kitsap Social Munch
Oct
1

Kitsap Social Munch

Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.

Held on the first Thursday of every month.

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Play ALL Day- Members Play Party
Sep
26
to Sep 27

Play ALL Day- Members Play Party

We are celebrating 15 years of Kitsap ACES by PLAYING ALL DAY! Enjoy BBQ, raffles, games, bondage rides, explore the space, and connect with the community. Whether you prefer to observe or jump into the action, everyone is welcome. Try out our "looking for" whiteboard to find a potential scene partner. There will be plenty of space for play scenes, along with separate areas for individuals to connect and socialize.

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Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Sep
25

Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party

Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!

Held on the 4th Friday of each month.

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Kitsap S-Type Group
Sep
23

Kitsap S-Type Group

This group is for "s-types" meaning submissives, slaves, bottoms, property, brats, pets and so on as well as switches with their s-type hats on. We welcome and encourage all genders and sexualities to attend (this means YOU <3). Generally this group is for those in the Kitsap Area and surrounding Pacific Northwest to share, mingle, gather advice, and general banter of s-type topics.

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Board Meeting
Sep
22

Board Meeting

This will be an abbreviated board meeting held via zoom, for the holidays. Please come out and join us in our business & planning time during board meetings.

Agenda items will vary from month to month.

Standard Items each month are:
Monthly Financial Report, Maintenance Report, Volunteer Scheduling, Upcoming Event Needs.

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Members Only Play Party
Sep
19

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Members Only Play Party
Sep
12

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Dungeon 101 Workshop Series
Sep
12

Dungeon 101 Workshop Series

Join us for a day long workshop series covering Dungeon 101 topics!

Whether you're new to kink or an experienced attendee who enjoys a refresher, this series will go over the skills, etiquette, and knowledge that will help you navigate public dungeon spaces with confidence. Come learn, ask questions, and connect with others as we dive into these great workshops.

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Members Only Play Party
Sep
11

Members Only Play Party

Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.

Held on the 2nd Friday and Most Saturdays.

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Kitsap littles’n’middles
Sep
7

Kitsap littles’n’middles

Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.

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Reoccurring Groups

Education is a big part of ACES. A variety of groups hold their meetings and munches at Kitsap ACES. You do not need to be a member of ACES to attend any of the meetings or munches and most educational opportunities.
Please check out the various groups on Fetlife.