Kitsap Dom Group
For Masters, Mistresses, Owners, Tops, and all who lead. A confidential space to discuss the real side of Dominance.
Kitsap ACES *DM* Volunteer Training Workshop
Are you an active participant in the Kitsap area kink scene and enjoy spending time at ACES? Would you like to help support our non-profit organization? Looking for more ways to become involved in the community? Do you have a desire to help strengthen our team of volunteers? Would you like a peek at the "behind the scene" work that goes into hosting our events? Then we would love to have you!
Kitsap ACES Vendor Fair
🌟 Kitsap ACES Vendor Fair 🌟
We will have our space jam packed with local vendors where you can come buy new toys, skin care, art, jewelry, furniture and more!
Shop from local vendors offering unique, handcrafted & kinky items
Open to the public (18+) and admission is FREE.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Vetting and Negotiating for a Long Term Dynamic w/ Five and little spoon
This one hour class offers an intimate conversation about vetting, negotiating, and sustaining a long-term power exchange dynamic as a way of life. We’ll share our lived experience of assessing compatibility, aligning values, navigating privilege, and making intentional decisions around trust, authority, care, and longevity. This isn’t a how to or a prescription. It’s a personal discussion about discernment, commitment, and what keeps our dynamic resilient and alive.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Marking Milestones, Making Magic in a Long Term Dynamic w/ Five and little spoon
This one hour workshop invites you to slow down and mark the moments that matter. Whether you’re in a long term dynamic, building something new, or standing on your own, we’ll explore how ritual, energy, and intention help us honor growth and meaningful change. Together, we’ll play with ritual as a living language that keeps our connections purposeful and consciously chosen.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
All-Members Meeting & Board Elections
Join us for our all-members meeting to hear updates and provide input.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Rope Open Party
Rope Party – A Night of Knots and Kink
Whether you're an experienced rigger, a rope bunny, or simply curious about what rope can bring to your play, this party is for you. Our Rope Party is a night to connect, explore, and get inspired by the endless possibilities of rope and kink.
Held First Friday of Odd Numbered Months
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Rope Skillshare: Bound TB Knotty
Learn how to tie safer and smarter. This is a Skillshare group that rotates through beginner to intermediate rope knowledge.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Rope Open Party
Rope Party – A Night of Knots and Kink
Whether you're an experienced rigger, a rope bunny, or simply curious about what rope can bring to your play, this party is for you. Our Rope Party is a night to connect, explore, and get inspired by the endless possibilities of rope and kink.
Held First Friday of Odd Numbered Months
Kitsap Social Munch
Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.
Held on the first Thursday of every month.
Kitsap Queer Discussion Group
Come as you are to Kitsap Queer Group, a monthly discussion space where queer voices are centered, respected, and celebrated. Whether you're exploring your identity or deeply rooted in it, this gathering offers room to connect, question, and grow in community. Open to all queer folks and allies.
Kitsap littles’n’middles
Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.
Kitsap S-Type Group
This group is for "s-types" meaning submissives, slaves, bottoms, property, brats, pets and so on as well as switches with their s-type hats on. We welcome and encourage all genders and sexualities to attend (this means YOU <3). Generally this group is for those in the Kitsap Area and surrounding Pacific Northwest to share, mingle, gather advice, and general banter of s-type topics.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Rope Skillshare: Bound TB Knotty
Learn how to tie safer and smarter. This is a Skillshare group that rotates through beginner to intermediate rope knowledge.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
QTs (Queer Trans) Open Play Party
This play party is intended explicitly for queer and trans members of the Kitsap ACES community and the Kitsap community at large (this is an open play party). This party is sponsored/hosted by the Kitsap ACES Queer Discussion Group, which meets every first Tuesday of every month!
Kitsap Social Munch
Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.
Held on the first Thursday of every month.
Kitsap Queer Discussion Group
Come as you are to Kitsap Queer Group, a monthly discussion space where queer voices are centered, respected, and celebrated. Whether you're exploring your identity or deeply rooted in it, this gathering offers room to connect, question, and grow in community. Open to all queer folks and allies.
Kitsap littles’n’middles
Calling all littles, middles, and s-types who explore age play! Join us for a supportive, in-person discussion group where adults can share their experiences, ask questions, and connect around age play dynamics in a safe and respectful space. Open to all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—judgment-free and kink-aware.
Volunteer Appreciation Play Party
Our volunteers have worked hard the last few years! Lets give them a night of appreciation and play.
This is not an Open or Members party.
This is an exclusive party to all those that have served as Board, DM, Door, Volunteer or a Presenter over the last 3 years (and their personal guests).
Rope Open Party
Rope Party – A Night of Knots and Kink
Whether you're an experienced rigger, a rope bunny, or simply curious about what rope can bring to your play, this party is for you. Our Rope Party is a night to connect, explore, and get inspired by the endless possibilities of rope and kink.
Held First Friday of Odd Numbered Months
Kitsap S-Type Group
This group is for "s-types" meaning submissives, slaves, bottoms, property, brats, pets and so on as well as switches with their s-type hats on. We welcome and encourage all genders and sexualities to attend (this means YOU <3). Generally this group is for those in the Kitsap Area and surrounding Pacific Northwest to share, mingle, gather advice, and general banter of s-type topics.
Board Meeting
This will be an abbreviated board meeting held via zoom, for the holidays. Please come out and join us in our business & planning time during board meetings.
Agenda items will vary from month to month.
Standard Items each month are:
Monthly Financial Report, Maintenance Report, Volunteer Scheduling, Upcoming Event Needs.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
*FREE* SEA-PAH Puppy Play 101 Class @ Kitsap ACES
Join us on Sunday, January 18th @5pm at Kitsap Aces as we learn about and discuss puppy play with Pup Tye from the Seattle Pups and Handlers Board of Directors.
We'll discuss puppy play basics, like common gear, pack and handler dynamics, and the most important rules for puppy play.
Afterwards, join us as we invade Sirens for a Kitsap ACES & SEA-PAH mixer.
This event is open to all (18+), you do not need to be a Kitsap ACES member to attend.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Faux Fur: A Kinky Drag Experience
Join your Mistress of Kink for the evening Sacred Heart, her scandalous banger of a co-host Jack of Spades Paradisco, and their band of kinky courters as they dazzle you with surprises galore to get you right in the mood for a long, hard night!
Rope Skillshare: Bound TB Knotty
Learn how to tie safer and smarter. This is a Skillshare group that rotates through beginner to intermediate rope knowledge.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Kitsap ACES *DOOR* Volunteer Training Workshop
Are you an active participant in the Kitsap area kink scene and enjoy spending time at ACES? Would you like to help support our non-profit organization? Looking for more ways to become involved in the community? Do you have a desire to help strengthen our team of volunteers? Would you like a peek at the "behind the scene" work that goes into hosting our events? Then we would love to have you!
Reoccurring Groups
Education is a big part of ACES. A variety of groups hold their meetings and munches at Kitsap ACES. You do not need to be a member of ACES to attend any of the meetings or munches and most educational opportunities.
Please check out the various groups on Fetlife.
Kitsap Littles n Middles: 1st Monday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Kink Group: 1st Monday 6:30pm - 8:30pm (Silverdale Subway)
Kitsap Queer Group: 1st Tuesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Social Munch: 1st Thursday 6pm - 9pm (McCloud’s Grill House)
Bound to be Knotty: 2nd Tuesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap MAsT: 2nd Wednesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Dominant Discussion Group - 3rd Tuesday of odd-numbered months (Starting May 20, 2025!)
Kitsap Hands On: 3rd Thursday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Submissive: 4th Wednesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitasp ACES Leather and Leaf Cigar Social: 4th Thursday 6:30pm - 9pm (WigWam Pub)
Kinky Gamer Night: 5th Monday 7pm - 9pm