What is Kitsap ACES?

Alternative Community Education Society

Kitsap ACES is your friendly neighborhood kink club—a volunteer-run, non-profit 501(c)(7) bringing together Puget Sound’s alternative lifestyle communities. Whether you're into BDSM, Leather, rope, impact, power exchange, or just curious and exploring, you’ll find a welcoming space here.

We believe kink is better when it's informed, enthusiastic, and inclusive. That’s why we’re all about connection through education—building a stronger community by creating safer, sexier spaces for everyone to learn, grow, and play.

You don’t need to be a member to get a taste of ACES, but membership unlocks even more events, perks, and chances to get involved.

What you can find at ACES:

  • A 3,000 sq. ft. dungeon in central Bremerton

  • A suspension rig with multiple hardpoints

  • Four unique playrooms

  • Two bathrooms (we know, it matters)

  • A chill social space and cozy aftercare nook

    • Awareness: Helping dispel stereotypes and misconceptions about alternative lifestyles through education.

    • Community: Increasing understanding, communication, and acceptance across diverse identities and experiences.

    • Education: Offering comprehensive resources and workshops on alternative lifestyles, including BDSM, Leather, and LGBTQ+ communities.

    • Safety: Promoting practices such as Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK), Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink (PRICK), and Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC). These practices ensure safe, consensual play, prioritizing mutual trust, responsibility, and communication between all participants.

    • Respect: Each person in our community is valued and treated with dignity.

    • Accountability: We take responsibility for our actions and strive to build trust within our community.

    • Integrity: We are committed to openness, honesty, and fairness.

    • Excellence: We continually seek to improve and innovate.

  • Want to get more involved? ACES runs on community power—and we love it when members step up to keep the magic going.

    If you notice something that could be better, or you’ve got a skill to offer, tell us! From laundry to lighting, social media to spring cleaning, there’s always something happening behind the scenes—and it takes a village to keep this kinky clubhouse thriving.

    We’re always looking for volunteers to help with:

    • Laundry & cleaning

    • Facility upkeep & dungeon resets

    • Organizing, sorting, and seasonal refreshes

    • Social media & comms support

    Curious about being a Door volunteer or Dungeon Monitor (DM)?
    We’ve got a supportive vetting process and workshops that are both informative and fun. You’ll get hands-on training, guidance, and the satisfaction of helping create a safe, sexy space for others to explore.

    Ready to raise your hand? Message us on FetLife or shoot us an email—we’d love to have you on the team.

New Here? Come Check Us Out!

We love welcoming new folks—whether you're curious, cautious, or ready to dive in. If you're exploring alternative lifestyles or just want to see what ACES is all about, you're invited to attend your first event and experience the vibe for yourself.

Here’s Where to Start:

Workshops & Socials – Low-pressure, high-connection events where you can learn something new, ask questions, and meet people.
Fresh Meet Friday – Our signature newcomer-friendly play party! Attend a quick orientation, then stay and explore the space. Held on the 4th Friday of every month.

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